I am not celebrating the independence day

Its independence day ..!! And I am sitting in office!

I am not feeling for that.. What’s there to celebrate the independence ?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you don’t stand a chance to pass a bill against corruption?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you become a beggar in your place?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you feel that going to other countries and earning gives you more prestige and safety?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you feel to settle in USA or UK?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you curse yourself for doing nothing for your country?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you see your own people as slaves?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you are seen with disgusting looks outside your country when you say your country name?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you are robbed by your own government in the name of tax and services?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you pay the tax and in turn the country adds you with more tax?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you can’t afford to buy a own house with your life term savings?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you are made as Jack Ass every 5 year?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you are not able be more than others in the last 68 years ?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you lost all the credibility’s you had for your culture?

What's there to celebrate the independence when you are left out with o choice than stay away from your loved ones?

What's there to celebrate the independence when you are influenced only by the foreign investments?

What's there to celebrate the independence when you are influenced only by the foreign government policies?

What's there to celebrate the independence when you are unable to get back what belongs to you?

What's there to celebrate the independence when you are called as a dirt face in the international community?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you are forced to be selfish to survive?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you are forced to live with out self dignity?

What’s there to celebrate the independence when you couldn’t make job opportunities from your own country?



No.. I couldn’t go anymore..

I have already said something in here http://speaktoshadow.blogspot.com/2011/04/blog-post.html

I don’t want to cry / feel anymore. I am stopping here

And I am not counting this as a day in my life.


I am out from my country just to earn a few penny, Where the country don’t have anything to feed its own people! And doesn't know what is meant by humanity or respect.

My Country is one of the gifted one with natural resources and good place for habituation, and my people became beggar’s in their own country!

Thanks to everyone who brought us to this situation!

10 steps to begin living a happier life

Happiness isn’t about leading an obstacle-free life — your life will always have obstacles — instead, it’s about learning how to change what you focus on and how you react to circumstances, regardless of whether they’re good or bad.

Happiness is a mental state of well-being that comes from focusing more often on the behaviors, people, and things that will enrich and inspire your positive physical, mental, and emotional growth.

Here are 10 steps to begin living a happier life:

Step One: Exercise.

Yes, you’ve heard it before, but exercise is one small change that yields really big, life-changing benefits. For starters, it is a fantastic energizer, invigorating your mind and body. Exercise improves your sleep, and it’s a natural anti-depressant that will help your attitude and outlook. As time passes, you’ll gain the added bonus of being happier with your physical appearance as well. If working out is already a part of your life, great. If it isn’t, commit to walking just twenty minutes every other day to start out. You don’t have to join a gym, sign up for exhausting classes, and completely reorder your life to reap the benefits of this investment.


Step Two: Take Charge of Your Mind.

If you want your thoughts and attitudes to be positive, you must fill your brain with encouraging ideas. For this reason, you may consider making motivational books and audio recordings part of your daily ritual, too. It sounds incredibly hokey, but listening to a motivational CD during your morning commute or reading motivational messages for fifteen minutes can put you in a positive place all day.


Step Three: Celebrate Success.

Most people tend to focus a lot of mental energy on the things that went wrong rather than the things that went well. Instead of beating yourself up, start celebrating your many successes. Relax about the things that don’t go perfectly, and celebrate everything that does. The cycle of negativity that focuses on failures will keep you from becoming a truly relaxed, content, and happy person.

Step Four: Eliminate Excess Stress.

Stress prevents you from living in and enjoying life. It can also cause negative long-term effects ranging from high blood pressure and insomnia to depression and anxiety. If you can’t eliminate or change a stressor, such as a job you hate but can’t afford to quit, challenge yourself to handle it differently. Decide beforehand how you will react in a more enlightened way when certain stressful situations occur. Having a game plan in place beforehand can reduce your negative reactions to stressors—big time.

Step Five: Live in the Present.

If you’re ruminating on what’s already happened or fretting about what might come to pass, you’re not enjoying the moment. You’re exacerbating your anxiety and unhappiness by choosing to dwell on things you can’t change or control. Forgive others (and yourself) for any wrongs you might be holding on to and stop dreading the future. Over time, you’ll start to live the adventurous, wonderful life in the present you were always meant to.


Step Six: Hang Around Positive People.

We influence and are influenced by the people we hang around. Gradually, you need to gravitate more toward the ‘Positives’ and distance yourself from the ‘Negatives.’ This might mean calling a positive friend and asking to meet up for coffee or a beer, or walking away from the water cooler when your co-workers begin to gripe and complain. Negative people will inevitably pass their unhealthy attitudes on to you.

Step Seven: Strengthen Close Relationships.

It’s always worth putting work into improving close relationships because the quality of the relationships you have with the people you are the closest to can make or break the quality of your life. Loving, supportive relationships will improve your outlook and well-being. Address any unresolved grievances and apologize for the things you may regret. Most of all, put more work into the relationship with your significant other than you do into anything else: This can make such a great difference in your emotional health, your stress levels, and your overall happiness.

Step Eight: Be Friendly.

Extending simple human kindness to other people can make a huge difference in their lives…and in yours. Everyone on Earth is carrying some sort of burden. You can’t make their pain, stress, or grief just magically disappear but you can make others feel just a little bit lighter and happier on their journey, even if only for five seconds. When you make friendliness a habit, you’ll attract kindness and smiles in return, and you’ll feel great about yourself for making a positive difference in the world!


Step Nine: Give Back.

It’s true: It really is better to give than to receive. Giving doesn’t have to involve money, either; your time, talents, and compassion are just as valuable as cash, if not more so. We’re all busy—but as often as you can, make the effort to do something nice to help another person or organization. Whether you’re giving time, energy, money, or encouragement, being generous will build up your self-esteem, broaden your perspective, keep you anchored in reality, and connect you to your blessings.

Step Ten: Be Grateful.

Yes, living with an 'attitude of gratitude' is a clichéd concept. But across the board, grateful people are happier and healthier; yes, studies have actually shown that thankful individuals are healthier too! It’s extremely important to be aware of all of your blessings, and to honor and thank those whom you owe for them. The humility that comes from knowing you owe so much to so many others may, in turn, spur you to give back more often to those less fortunate than yourself.